"Would you be comfortable if we...?"
"Can I...?"
"I would like to...how do you feel about that?"
"I want to do...would you like to...?"
"Would you like this?"
"Are you comfortable with this?"
"Are you ok with this?"
"Are you okay with X?"
"Is X something you’re comfortable with?"
"How do you feel about X?"
"What do think is "hot"?"
"What do you like?"
"Do you want to keep going or should we take a break?"